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Answering That First Hater

Well, it had to happen. After announcing the new fitness & nutrition business my wife have launched, I got my first message (via Facebook) that read: “Are you serious? You’re doing the Beach Body thing? Isn’t that for women? You give up your man card? Don’t be a p*ssy. Lift hard, run hard. Eat clean. It’s all you need.” Okay. I’ve known this man for about twenty years and he truly believes exactly what he sent. I guess there may be some misperception of Beach Body, its origins and gender specificity… but give up my man card? I don’t think so. Continue reading

Why Did We Choose BeachBody?

After announcing the new fitness and nutrition business my wife and I launched today (as I type this), I got a question from a friend on Facebook: So what made you guys go to BeachBody?  I started to type out the answer to her and then thought… others are going to ask this same question. So here’s the answer for anyone who wondered. Continue reading

Formal Launch – TBB Frankly-Fit

Today’s entry (October 22, 2018) is to formally announce that my wife, Debbie, and I are launching our Team Beach Body (TBB) coaching business. Even as I type this I’m quite aware that I have some friends who will giggle and laugh because they assume things about TBB that they find… beneath them somehow. I have some other friends who will see this, nod their head and mentally wish us well both in our fitness attainment and in the building of our attached business. Then there are a few folks reading this who will almost immediately think, “Wow. Could that help me? Could I do that?” The answer is, yes it could and yes you can. If you fall into either of the two latter groups, don’t hesitate to reach out to us via email (frankborelli@comcast.net) or on our Beach Body Coach’s page or through the Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/MentorFrankBorelli/

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Coaching, Mentoring & Criticizing

Just this morning (as I type this) I enjoyed a quick back-and-forth conversation on social media and then via email with a man I consider of reasonable wisdom and maturity. He is a hard worker, husband, father and motivated employee of the same company I work for. He has a quick wit and a good sense of humor. The conversation we shared reminded me of the difference between being critical and being a mentor. The one thing that stands out most in my mind is that a mentor (or coach) has to be critical; he has to be capable of evaluation and judgment as part of his skill set, but he also has to be able to communicate what he sees as deficiencies in a way that offers solutions and recommendations for improvement. That add-on to the critical skill set is the difference between being someone who is negative and just complains and someone who offers a solution to an observed problem. Continue reading