This past Sunday evening (as I write this) my wife and I enjoyed an evening at a friend’s house. We…
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On one of my social media feeds, a man I’ve met only briefly but who I hold in high regard…
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I have had several friends make fun of me for my outlook on sleeping. As much as I enjoy it…
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The glory days of spring and summer have passed. The days are shorter, the nights are longer, the fires are…
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Words have meaning. In a perfect world, the same word would have the same meaning to everyone. That alone would…
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“What follows ‘I am’ is far more important than what follows ‘You are’.” I put that quote up on Facebook…
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This is something we all know, but some of us need a reminder about every now and then. You don’t…
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Inspired by Michelle Johnson-Brown, From the Cigar Lounge Wisdom series It was a mid-July evening and, as I have for many…
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Someone once said that there are two truly important days in our life: the day we are born and the…
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Here we are in the early years of the 21st century. It’s a setting saturated with social media. Some of…
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Every now and then I get involved in some interesting discussions with friends at the local cigar bar. Last evening…
Continue ReadingThe Courage of Your Convictions
“I’m a man of my convictions; call me wrong; call me right.” – Toby Keith Conviction: a fixed or firm belief. (www.dictionary.com) Integrity: adherence…
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Although we don’t tend to think about it much, our lives are full of traditions. We inherit them from our…
Continue ReadingThe True Value of Life & Wealth
Sure, we’d all like to be rich. If you’re familiar with the Avengers in Marvel Comics, then you know who…
Continue ReadingCommunication, Motivation & Initiative
In every kind of relationship: personal, work, friends, whatever – in EVERY kind of relationship there are requirements of both…
Continue ReadingNot Who but WHAT Are You?
It’s been said that “I Am” are two of the most powerful words in the English language – because what…
Continue ReadingWhat A Single Second Can Mean
In the military and law enforcement fields of endeavor – where I have spent almost my entire adult life –…
Continue ReadingWould You Be Nothing?
I know a few people who have a difficult time handling the criticism of others. When I talk with them,…
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As most folks who read my blogs know, I have been a police officer for over 30 years. Like everyone…
Continue ReadingThe Value of Our Warrior Culture
As I type this it’s Sunday afternoon, November 12, 2006. Two days ago, November 10th was the Marine Corps’ Birthday…
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