It’s “Black Friday” 2018 as I type this. Thanksgiving is a pleasant recent memory and we can finally justify all…
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Is Belief in Karma a Religion?
Nearly every day of my life I hear someone say, “Karma’s a bitch,” or, “Watch what you do; you don’t…
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“Only a Sith deals in such absolutes.” Obi-Wan Kenobi. I couldn’t help myself. I had to open with that. The…
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There are many different kinds of energy, and that’s not even getting into the existential discussion about Einstein’s theory and…
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This is always a good conversation starter: Do you believe in ghosts? The answers vary from, “Nope. They don’t exist,”…
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Almost daily you can hear someone complain about their life, their day, some part of their job or something else.…
Continue ReadingBrightest Lights During The Darkest Times
NOTE: This blog isn’t being written, or even approached, with journalistic structure or professionalism in mind. The topic is suicide:…
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Just this morning (as I type this) I enjoyed a quick back-and-forth conversation on social media and then via email…
Continue ReadingUnderstanding the Trauma of Trivia
One of the most important parts of communication is understanding or at least attempting to see and understand the point…
Continue ReadingAre You a Warrior? BE a Warrior
From dictionary.com, the definition of “Warrior:” A person engaged or experienced in warfare; soldier. A person who shows or has…
Continue ReadingThe Birthplace of Souls
As happens with most thoughts we consider to be deep or memorable – worthy of remembering – this one came…
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“The eyes are the window to the soul.” A quote attributed to a great many people and we’ll never know…
Continue ReadingFocus on the Inspirational
One of the greatest compliments I’ve ever been paid was when a longtime friend of mine posted on a social…
Continue ReadingHoliday Blues? Find the Silver Lining
Every year around this time, as all law enforcement professionals know, suicides and suicide attempts seem to climb in number. …
Continue ReadingStaying Positive & Why
Just recently on Facebook I saw a meme that was a joke. In essence it said, “Shoot for the stars…
Continue ReadingDon’t Contaminate Your House
Across the span of the past few decades of my life I’ve heard a great many analogies that compare something…
Continue ReadingStanding Still Is Falling Behind
We have all heard the story of the hare and the tortoise; the rabbit and the turtle. We’ve heard how…
Continue ReadingDefining Success
Success, as defined by Dictionary.com means: the accomplishment of one’s goals; the attainment of wealth, position, honors, or the like. …
Continue ReadingWorrying Is Actually A Bad Thing
Most of my friends and family have heard me quote the Serenity prayer or some version of it (because I…
Continue ReadingHate, Energy & Motivation
I was at lunch just the other day with four men who I consider friends. In fact, two of them…
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